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TEXT 1. COURTSHIP AND MARRIAGE
Courtship and marriage customs vary considerably from culture to
culture. In Canada, the customs tend to reflect the diverse ethnic backgrounds in
the country; at the same time, many customs described here are characteristic of
Canadian weddings in general.
Arranged marriages are rare among Canadians. Most people prefer to get to
know members of the opposite sex by going out together. Some may even live
together before marrying! If two people decide to get married, they be-come
engaged and the bride-to-be may receive a diamond ring from her fiancé'. While
the parents' permission is not required unless the bride or groom is under legal
age, most couples do hope for their parents' approval of the marriage.
Once the couple have set the date, they have many decisions to make —
whether they want a large or a small, traditional or non-traditional, civil or
church wedding. Weddings also vary in style depending on the ethnic tradi-
tions of the bride and groom. Before the wedding, the bride may be given a
number of "showers" by her friends. During these small parties, the bride is
"showered" with gifts for the home. Friends of the groom may throw a bache-
lor party before the wedding day. The expense of the wedding itself is tradi-
tionally the responsibility of the bride's parents, but today the costs are more
likely to be shared by both families and by the bride and groom themselves.
On the day of the wedding, it is considered bad luck for the groom to see
the bride before the ceremony. The groom usually wears a tuxedo or a formal
suit; the bride wears a white gown with a veil. She should have "something old,
something new, something borrowed and something blue."
Traditional weddings take place in a church. The groom waits at the altar
with the best man. The ushers seat the wedding guests. Bridesmaids walk up the
aisle in a procession followed by the bride, who is accompanied by her father. A
minister or priest performs the ceremony and the maid (or matron) of honour
and the best man act as official witnesses.
The reception after the ceremony is usually a dinner followed by an even-
ing of dancing. The bride and groom greet their guests in a receiving line. While
the guests are seated for the meal, there are speeches and toasts. When the
guests clink their glasses with silverware, the bride and groom are expect-ed to
stand up and kiss each other.
Before the bride and groom leave the reception, they go to all the guests,
thanking them and giving them each a piece of wedding cake to take home. The
bride throws her bouquet to the unmarried women; the woman who catches it is said
to be the next to be married. The groom throws the bride's garter to the unmarried
men. Rice (or confetti) thrown at the bride and groom is a symbol of fertility.
Marriages come under provincial jurisdiction. A couple must wait at least
three days after the licence is obtained to have the ceremony. Judges or mar-
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